which signifies total helplessness. its meant for those people, in our humanitarian crisis who fuss over the little stuff, who frequently offer up a frustrated pout as if the world were ending whenever something little goes wrong or something minor yet unexpected gets in their way. I do pity and empathize, i am sometimes the guy fussing. maybe thats why i was able to so easilly understand what this guys deal was, and maybe thats why i was able to get such an immediate reaction from him. upon my waifing at him he immediately stopped cussing ....